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What is Your Quality of Life?

Updated on March 18th, 2022

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Meaning of ‘Quality of Life

The term ‘Quality of Life’ is a very broad and an ambiguous term and may mean different to different people. For some, good quality of life may mean being wealthy with a palatial house, fleet of cars, frequent exotic travel trips and so on. To someone else it may mean a good healthy body with a life of moral values. Yet to someone else, it may mean to able to live with just adequate means with a feeing of contentment and peace of mind.

Your Happiness and Contentment depends upon Quality of your Life


One’s level of happiness and contentment greatly depends on the quality o your life.“Quality of Life“ has has both physical and non-physical aspects. The non-physical part includes your psychological, emotional and spiritual aspects. One may have all the physical comforts and luxuries and yet may not enjoy a good quality of life due to psychological and emotional baggage which cause him anxiety and bursts of depressions in life. On the other hand, another individual may have limited resources barely to meet his necessities and yet may enjoy a good quality of life due to his emotional and spiritual health which make him feel contented.

In simple terms, it means degree to which an individual is healthy, comfortable, and able to enjoy life. World Health Organization defines it as ‘individuals’ perception of their position in life in the context of the culture and value systems in which they live, and in relation to their goals, expectations, standards and concerns. There are no standard laid down factors or parameters to measure one’s quality of life quantitatively.
However, the following factors are widely accepted to constitute one’s quality of life:

Good Health and Wellness status

Health and your Quality of Life are inter-dependant. Good health contributes greatly to the Quality of Life. At the same time, good quality of life definitely has a positive impact on health.

Social wellbeing & Relationships

Social factors and strong relationships make you feel good and contribute to your emotional growth and overall health.

Satisfying Employment

In general, one’s feelings about his/her job such as working conditions, time to commute, interpersonal relationships, rewards, benefits and  a well defined career path contributes a lot towards Quality of Life.

Clarity on Purpose and Meaning in Life through Spiritual Development

Having a clear purpose of life is the  key to achieving  contentment and eventually peace of mind. Spiritual People  have a clear purpose which makes their lives meaningful.They realise that the purpose of life is to find Happiness which is means communion with God. The joy and calmness one achieves with this communion cannot be expressed in words.

Perception and attitude towards life

Even if one is not financially strong and cannot afford a very high standard of living but yet due to his positive outlook, he may perceive a feeling of contentment and joy.

Good Financial status

Financial well being is an important component of Quality of Life. Being financially sound gives you access to good quality of food, more comforts and access to medicines and health care facilities which directly contribute to your health and good Quality of Life.

Good Work Life Balance

Having a good work-life balance leaves adequate time for leisure, time with family and entertainment and contributes to one’s health.

Security and Freedom

Security and Freedom that one one enjoys both during working and in personal life is an important factor that determines the quality of life.

Environmental conditions

Environmental conditions like climate and access to clean drinking water with no air pollution. Access to clean air and water and non-polluting environment has a direct impact on your health and well-being.

High education Level

High education Level and Self Development: Education level is another determinant of Quality of Life. If one is educated, he understands what is good or bad for him and can make choices which are beneficial and healthier for him.

Effective and Judicious utilisation of Technology

Effective use of computers and smartphones for activities like health monitoring, financial transactions, e-learning, communication and gaining fast access to information is a boon and enhances the Quality of Life. At the same time, addiction to these devices for social media and unfiltered load of information makes them a curse. Excessive screen time strains the eyes and leaves less time for outdoor activities. Therefore, Judicious use of these devices definitely improves the Quality off Life.

Activities that can add to your Quality of Life

Everyone is different and the way in which one person enjoys may not appeal to another. But there are definitely certain common ingredients which one may seek as they are under your control:



Do what you like and like whatever you do, It could be a productive engagement or a pastime or entertainment, but so long as love doing it, it will definitely make you feel good and enjoy. Follow your passions.

Exercise regularly to keep yourself fit. It helps release of Endorphin hormone which makes you relaxed and happy.

Do things which benefits others. Selfless service in giving it to nature or to the society, releases Serotonin hormone which acts as a mood stabiliser and makes you happy.

Eating well and taking care of yourself at any age makes you feel good. So let age not discourage you from maintaining yourself with fashion trends suiting your life style.

Travel more and explore the world. It is one activity which will refresh your mind and make your life exciting.

Try and always keep a positive mindset. Keep a company of positive and lively people.

Take adequate rest and always have a Good Night sleep.

How to calculate Quality of your Life


What are the most important factors that determine the Quality of Life. Is it possible to measure these factors and come to a quantitive figure indicating the degree of Quality of Life that a person enjoys. These factors can be broadly divided into categories given below, To come to a quantitative figure indicating level of Quality of Life that one enjoys, there is a requirement to come to a weightage given to each factor. Although this aspect is quite subjective and may vary from individual to individual. However for the purpose of this article, I have given the weightage that I consider to be most appropriate after a comprehensive research. The Weightage given to each factor is added in parenthesis. With these weightage, given the necessary inputs it would be possible to calculate one’s Quality of Life:

Factor affecting Quality of LifeWeightage
Health and Wellness factors20
Education Level, Technology and Self Development Factors 20
Social Factors & Relationships20
Financial Factors15
Purpose in Life and Spiritual Development10
Work Life Balance10
Environmental Factors5
Total100
How to calculate Quality of your Life

Analysis of Score on Quality of Life

Allot marks in each attribute out of weightage given in parenthesis and total it up to arrive at your total score.

Total ScoreQuality of Life
Less than 60Needs attention. Make efforts to improve
Between 60 and 70Fair
Between 70 and 75Good
Greater than 75Excellent
Analysis of Score on Quality of Life

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You can reverse your age.

Updated on September 24th, 2022

What is your age? Whenever you talk about your age, you are referring to the chronological age which is the number of years you have lived since birth. But is it your actual or real age? Has your body aged as per your chronological age or is it younger or older than your age? Ask this question from a number of  people who do not know your exact age “How old do you think I am ?” The figure you get may be different from your chronological age.  People will estimate your age by your looks, health and your energy levels as perceived by them.      Now ask yourself as to how healthy and energetic you feel? Do you feel as energetic and healthy as you were when you were ten years younger or do you always feel tired and feel that the age has caught up with you?  Answer to these questions will give you a rough indication of your biological age (also known as physiological age or real age of your body). Putting it all together, if your looks, energy levels and state of your physical, emotional and mental health is better than that of an average person of your age, then your biological age is less than your chronological age. Lower Biological age is a good sign and a fact to be proud of.

Your chronological age which is just the number of years you have existed after your birth. It will continue to increase at a set rate with time. On the other hand, biological age is calculated on the basis of your physical, emotional and mental state. Biological age gives your real age or true age of your body. It is quite possible that an individual with a chronological age of 60 may have a biological age of 40 years and a person with chronological age of 40 years may have a biological age of  60.   

For healthy ageing and longevity, what is more important is your biological age or body age rather than your chronological age. In fact your biological age is more closely tied to the risk of age-related diseases than your chronological age.

While have no control over your chronological age, you can always take certain steps to reduce or reverse your Biological age. You can have a body of 30 years in a 50 yr old person. It is ideal to start the the process of checking and controlling your biological age while you are young but if you have missed the boat, the good news is that it is never too late. You can start at any age and reverse your biological age to the extent possible.

How do you determine your Biological age? There are several ways that you can determine your biological age, but none are absolutely definitive or accurate. However, these methods do give you a fair idea of your body age. 

Know your Biological Age

One such real age calculator  is Health Age Calculator which calculates your Biological Age taking your personal inputs on your heart health, medical, nutrition, psychological aspects and security. 

You can calculate your biological age by giving inputs in the calculator below starting from Personal aspects:

Know Your Real Age

The Biological or Real age that you get from the calculators may be lower or higher than your chronological age. If it is lower, it is a matter of satisfaction. If it is higher, it is a wake up call for you. The good part is that there are health factors that would reverse your biological age and give you years back on your average life expectancy.

Why do we Age?

You may not realize that your body actually replaces itself, cell by cell, every seven to fifteen years. The old cells die and new ones are formed through the process of division. 

The nucleus of every cell contains Chromosomes which have protective endings known as Telomeres. Every time that a cell divides, a small telomere part falls off from end of the chromosome resulting in shortening of Telomeres. Over a period of time, telomeres gradually get shorter and shorter. This is what causes ageing and increasing of Biological age.

How can you reduce your Biological age?

Fortunately, there are certain life style and environmental changes through which we can lengthen our telomeres and reverse our Biological age.

To reduce your biological age, you need to address all the factors affecting the biological age.

Primarily there are three sets of factors which determine your biological age. These are genes, Life style and Environment. You inherit your genes, so you have no control over them. It is estimated that your genes contribute to nearly 30% towards your ageing. The balance 70% is controlled by your Life style, habits and environmental factors. Therefore it is important to control this 70% if you want to reverse your biological age.

Working Out/Exercise

To negate the effects of ageing and reversing the trend, physical exercise and workout is the most important factor.

New research has confirmed the power of lifelong exercise in keeping our muscles healthy at all ages.

-Exercise speeds up your metabolism and help you lose weight.

-It helps in building muscle and bone mass.

-It improves both heart and lung function and increases your energy levels.

-It helps preventing diseases and illness.

-It has a positive impact on stress levels by boosting the level of endorphins in your body.

-It improves your brain health and reduces the risk of cognitive decline.

-It gives you relaxation and improves the quality of your sleep.

-Exercise not only makes you feel younger and improves overall health and longevity. 

How Much of Exercise must be undertaken would depend on one’s age, physical state and capacity. If you have not exercised at all for a long period of time, it is recommended to consult a physician before undertaking and deciding any exercise routine.

Aerobic activity is  moderate intensity exercise such as walking or jogging, swimming or cycling may be undertaken to get the heart pumping. These exercises build up endurance, improve lung and heart health, stamina and  benefit the circulatory system. 

Strength training must be undertaken to help build muscle and bone density. It would also improve the functional fitness. Older adults should start with the exercises using their own bodyweight like Squats, Push-ups, Step-ups etc and build up on it subsequently.

Stretching keeps the body mobile and flexible and helps in continuing doing everyday tasks with ease. Yoga is a very safe and useful stretching exercise which is ideal for fifty plus.

Duration. For all 50 plus, at least 150 minutes of aerobic activity, strength training and stretching exercises every week is recommended.  They may alternate between aerobic and strength exercises, working up to at least 30 minutes of exercise, five days each week.

Nutrition

-Nutrition is another important factor to control and reverse ageing process.

-Nutrition is crucial for the body. Ensure that at Fifty plus, you consume more Proteins, Vitamin B12, B6, Calcium, Folate and Vitamin D to slow muscle loss, keeping the bones strong and to slow cognitive decline.

 -Pack as much nutrition into each meal as possible by concentrating on the foods rich in Essential Vitamins and  Minerals

-A Wholesome Breakfast can be a good way to start the day to get the essential vitamins and minerals and required amount of fibre. As a fifty plus, never miss your Breakfast.

-Consume foods rich in Omega 3 fatty acids. Omega 3s are important for reducing inflammation wherever it comes up.

-Essential fats are also for hormone production. Healthy fat source could include avocado, olive oil, peanut butter or fish oils. 

-Aim for five servings of fruits & vegetables each day. These are packed with important nutrients to help you stay healthy.

-Include adequate quantity of fibre in your diet and always stay hydrated.

-Include Super Foods  in your diet which can give you better nutrition with less calories.

Intermittent fasting and reducing the caloric intake by 20 to 30% while maintaining intake of essential nutrients, is confirmed to be a sure means to extend life span. 

Emotional State and stress levels

-Some stress is unavoidable and makes us keep going. However, excessive stress places strain on our immune system, interferes with our hormones and slows our metabolic rate.

-Learn techniques for stress reduction and management, such as yoga, meditation or deep breathing. Develop a  positive mindset. A positive mindset can have a beneficial effect on your longevity.

-Most people feel younger or older than they really are – and this ‘subjective age’ has a big effect on their physical and mental health. so never say ‘I am ageing’

Modify you Habits/Improve your Environment

If you smoke, quit smoking immediately.

If you drink, cut down to one drink  a day.

Practice a good sleep routine by turning off all lights & screens and getting in bed 30 min before sleep time. Sleep at least 7 to 8 hrs every day.

Maintain a good balance between work and hobbies/pastimes.

Always stay calm and manage your stress through meditation and deep breathing.

Always think positive as positive mindset improves longevity.

Maintain a good relationships with your family, friends and near and dear ones.

Move more. Exercise through activities you enjoy.

Get regular medical check ups.

Try and achieve ideal weight. Always watch what you eat.

Build social connections.

Always learn something new to keep your brain healthy.

Guard against all type of pollution including radiation pollution from mobiles, TVs, computers etc.

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PURPOSE OF LIFE- HAVE YOU CREATED ONE FOR YOURSELF?

Updated on October 18th, 2022

I am sure everyone, at some time or the other, wonders as to “What is the Purpose of his or her Life”. The associated queries which come to ones mind while seeking an answer to this question are:

Questions on Purpose of Life

-Is it the God who has created you has laid down the purpose of your life? Is it your biological parents who gave you the birth have given you the purpose of your life? Is it that you yourself have defined the purpose of your life?

-Was your Future already decided at the time of your birth itself? Was  it destined that you would be what you are today?

-Is it necessary to have a purpose of Life?

-When and from where does the purpose of life come?

-At what stage in life you are clear that you have purpose in this life which you have to achieve?

-Once you have got your purpose, does it remains constant or it changes with passage of time?

-Is the purpose of life the same as the goals that you set for yourself to achieve in your life?

These are some of the questions which generally haunt us and to which we probably have no satisfactory answer.

Your coming into this world was not your choice. It was either Gods will, destiny or an accident. You never had a choice of your parents or timing or place for coming into this world.

Having taken birth, the journey of your life began. Your personality, your character and your values developed over a period of time is a result of your upbringing and  exposure to the environment you got.

 

Is there a God given Purpose?

Whether there is a God given purpose for your existence or not is not clear.  If God has laid down an individual purpose for you then how is going to be communicated to you. Spiritual minds  may tell you to discover your purpose of life inside yourself by getting connected to God through spirituality and meditation.  However, for most human beings to do so does not appear easy.

Are your Goals the Purpose of Your Life?

Mostly, when we talk about purpose, we are actually talking about goals that we set for ourselves.  If our goals are giving us our purpose of life, what is the ultimate Goal of our life? Is it one of the following?

–Earning adequate Wealth

–Building strong Relationships

–Becoming a renowned Professional- viz;   Doctor,  Engineer, Pilot etc.

–Becoming powerful by achieving a position in society

–Becoming a Celebrity

–Achieving good health and fitness

–Doing something useful to the society

All  the items listed above  point toward achieving something which gives you satisfaction in life by fulfilling your material, physical and emotional needs. The satisfaction that you achieve after fulfillment of these needs is temporary and not long lasting. Once you achieve your set goal, you feel satisfied but that satisfaction is temporary and you want more.

The cycle of Goal setting and Fulfilment

So you  create now goals which again when satisfied give rise to yet another set of new goals and the cycle continues. For example, if your goal is to become a Billionaire and you are able to achieve this goal, you feel very good and on the top of the world. However, with the passage of time the satisfaction and feeling of achievement fades away. Whatever you have achieved becomes a way of your life. It does not fascinate you anymore.

You now set new goals to achieve more material wealth and your threshold of satisfaction goes higher and higher as you start comparing yourself with others who are still better than you. This way you get into a cycle of goal setting, achieving and setting worldly goals once again. In pursuit of getting more and more, you tend to lose sight of  the real purpose of life. The wealth, power and position that you earn basically results in satisfaction of your wants.

Meditation helps in focussing and concentrating your mind

Everyone’s goal in life is to avoid pain and acquire happiness, peace and wisdom. Man seeks happiness in wealth, love, sex, entertainment, liquor and even in drugs only to be disillusioned as all these pursuits do not bring a lasting joy but disappointment and distress in the end. Regular practice of Meditation  will bring your body, mind and soul in perfect harmony and will give a greater physical and mental power to achieve a successful, happy and peaceful life.

Is having a Purpose in Life necessary?

If setting and achieving goals is not the purpose of your life then what is the Purpose of Life? Is there any other purpose? Does one needs to have any other purpose?

Every venture, mission and journey has to have a purpose. Similarly Life is a journey and a mission to be fulfilled and so it has to have a purpose. Who will give this purpose?

Who will give you the Purpose of your Life?

It is you yourself who has to decide and define Purpose of Your Life to make it meaningful. For justifying your existence, you and you alone and no one else has to identify, define and create a purpose of your life.  Yes, every human being is capable of creating a purpose for himself/herself.

Essential Elements of Purpose of Life

Whatever you decide and define to be the purpose of your life, it needs to have the following four elements:

–Love whatever you are doing and do it to the best of your ability. If you do not like what you are doing and there is something else you would love to do, switch over to doing what you like and love, as soon as possible.

–Make your existence worthwhile by being useful to society. Whatever you do must contribute something to community directly or indirectly. Someone must benefit.

–Whatever you do and achieve should not be at the cost of others. There should be no injustice done to anyone.

— Introspect & practise regular meditation to harmonise you body, mind & soul.

A purpose of life once defined incorporating these four elements will give a direction and a focus to your life. Your life would become meaningful to you. By doing what you love to the best of your potential, benefiting others and practise regular meditation without hurting anyone will bring satisfaction, happiness and contentment in your life. This would eventually give you Peace of Mind. And this is is the ultimate goal of life.

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